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C-PTSD 8 MIN READ

What is C-PTSD? (And how it's different from PTSD)

When the wound wasn't one event but a thousand small ones, the effects show up differently. Here's what complex trauma is, the signs to look for, and why "I'm fine" is sometimes a survival response.

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What is childhood emotional neglect?
Julia Berg Julia Berg

What is childhood emotional neglect?

Some wounds come from what happened to you. This one comes from what didn't — the feelings that went unnoticed, unnamed, unmet. Here's what childhood emotional neglect looks like, and why "my childhood was fine" doesn't rule it out.

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Meet your parts: an intro to IFS
Julia Berg Julia Berg

Meet your parts: an intro to IFS

You're not one thing — you're a whole internal system. Here's an introduction to Internal Family Systems, and how getting to know your parts is where healing begins

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Quieting your Inner Critic
Julia Berg Julia Berg

Quieting your Inner Critic

That harsh inner voice isn't a character flaw — it's an old survival strategy. Here's where it comes from, what it's protecting you from, and how to start building a gentler relationship with it.

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