Hi, I'm Julia —
The therapist I needed, for the people who needed one too
My story
Why I do this work
Ibecame a therapist because in my early 20's I struggled on and off with anxiety, depression, and being kind to myself. This often looked like having social anxiety, difficulties voicing my wants and needs in relationships, and difficulty in conflict. It wasn't until I found therapy, did I experience real change and start learning tools that helped me show up better in my friendships and relationships.
I learned that much of what I was experiencing in the present — my anxiety and depression, were directly related to my upbringing and childhood. So many of us grew up in homes that weren't dramatic or dangerous, just… emotionally absent. Our feelings went unnamed. Our needs felt like too much. Or it felt like our parents were too involved in themselves or too defensive to really be connected with us. So we learned, very young, to manage on our own feelings. That kind of early experience doesn't always leave an obvious mark. It shows up later as the high-achiever who feels empty, the helper who can't ask for help, the person who looks fine and feels alone. I'm drawn to this work because I believe those adaptations were never flaws — they were brilliant, protective responses to a world that didn't quite meet you. And what adapted can heal.
My work is gentle, collaborative, and never about pushing you to relive the past. It's about slowly building the safety, self-connection, and compassion that maybe no one taught you — until being with yourself feels less like a battle and more like coming home.
"You don't need to be fixed. You need to be met — and that's exactly what we'll do together."
How I hold this work
You set the pace
We never move faster than feels safe. Healing isn't a race, and your nervous system gets a say in everything we do.
You're not broken
Every part of you — even the critical or numb ones — adapted for a reason. We meet them with curiosity, not judgment.
The relationship matters
Being truly seen and responded to — maybe the thing you didn't get enough of — is itself part of the healing.
What refills my cup
Being in the water, chasing a new travel destination, and a really good movie night.
You'll usually find me
Learning a new dish in the kitchen, hanging out with my best friends, or walking my dog around the lake.
My co-pilots
I love my dog, Nora, and my cat, Lil' Richie — though neither of them pays rent, and both act like they own the place anyway.
My big three
Taurus sun, Virgo moon, Scorpio rising — make of that what you will.
Specialized, supervised care
You can read more about how I work on the How I Help page.
If anything here resonated, I'd be honored to hear from you. A free 15-minute consultation is a gentle, no-pressure way to see how it feels to talk.